What would happen if we started talking to ourselves as our own best friend would talk to us (the heartbeat of a great marriage) and not as our own best critic does? Is it possible to let the critic rest and make time for the friend? For a while very day? Can I choose one or the other? Perhaps the best a person can do is to make time for the friend and then more time. Then who knows? Into different waters for sure? A possible new great marriage to myself?